http://www.michelemmartin.com/thebambooprojectblog/2011/06/strategies-for-exploring-positive-questions-for-professional-development.html <- write it down, make it a story, visualize it.

http://time.com/109342/the-one-simple-thing-that-can-make-you-much-more-impressive/ <- The only change was this semester he presented more enthusiastically, gesturing with his hands and modulating his voice.

http://www.forbes.com/sites/brettsteenbarger/2015/06/21/appreciative-inquiry-leading-by-asking-the-right-questions/print/ <- Appreciative inquiry (AI) has two important elements: becoming mindful of the questions we ask and directing those questions toward strengths and positive outcomes.

有趣的是，教授說切忌養大自尊心。她發現，美國加州很多關懷青少年的機構都提倡建立自尊心（Self-Esteem），卻無助吸煙、毒品等問題。因為自尊心由「成功」養大，遇到「失敗」馬上危危乎。它的本質已有比較，要成為自尊心強的人，你就要覺得自己很特別，也比他人強。
要做到「自我關懷」，我們要接受自己會做錯，偶爾偷懶讓自己休息一下，就像對待你身邊的好友。 - http://hk.apple.nextmedia.com/realtime/supplement/20160419/55001749

As outlined by recent research, it all seems as though confidence doesn't necessarily breed success.  Interestingly, the self-reported writing skills of college freshmen has been going up over decades, while actual writing ability has dropped.  Students rate themselves much higher in drive to succeed now than two or three decades ago, but the average time they spend studying has dropped meaningfully. - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk/2014/03/the-limits-of-self-belief.html

五萬隻鳥蛋的故事告訴我們，即使遇到一些普通如一隻鳥蛋那樣熟悉的事物，我們仍可在當中發掘新的知識，並需要勇氣挑戰舊的假設。 - https://thestandnews.com/cosmos/%E4%BA%94%E8%90%AC%E9%9A%BB%E9%B3%A5%E8%9B%8B%E5%91%8A%E8%A8%B4%E4%BD%A0%E7%94%9A%E9%BA%BC-%E4%B8%8B/

Use negative emotion as an catalyst to success - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk/2017/08/awareness-and-acceptance-in-trading.html

It's really true: confidence doesn't come from success alone, but rather from facing failure and moving beyond it. - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk/2017/09/the-most-important-reason-traders-cant.html

但接著某件不尋常的事情發生了。學生「相信」比較聰明的那群老鼠，真的表現比較好。簡直有如魔法。那些「聰明」的老鼠儘管和「笨」的同類沒有差別，表現卻是兩倍優秀。 - https://dq.yam.com/post.php?id=14388

Setbacks are inevitable, here’s your brain’s survival guide to get motivated again - https://www.fastcompany.com/90863981/brains-survival-guide-to-get-motivated-after-setback 

How to stop assuming the worst in a state of uncertainty - https://www.fastcompany.com/91173089/how-to-stop-assuming-the-worst-in-a-state-of-uncertainty

Where Does Confidence Come From — And How Do You Build More of It? - https://nicenews.com/health-and-wellness/where-confidence-comes-from-and-how-to-build-more/
